Realities

  Don’t let your child loose-fit these precious years of their lives. As schools are closed, but neither your mental horizons nor theirs. They are as inquisitive as they’re in classroom. Listen & act as per their wishes. Sometimes they might be demanding, but you’ve to cater to their needs. They’re going through a tough phase as we all are. Don’t let their little storehouse of knowledge go imbalanced. Feed them in thoughts & actions. But don’t hamper their physical & mental growth. Off line classes are though replaced by on line teaching, yet you are here with your kids 24*7 offline. Working people have to do some extra efforts but nothing stands beyond the essence of our kids. Jostle them, cuddle them & hug them tight as we never thought of locking them inside the narrow domains of four walls. Be poised in your approach. Teach them ‘one new thing’ everyday. It may be fun facts, e-media or content of their personal interest. Share your own ‘childhood memories’ with your

 Praise is a six letter amazing word which everyone loves to hear. Actually its spelled right as it gives you ‘raised’ platform by adding prefix ‘P’. Its very much applicable to all age groups, no matter you are 3 or 93. The word itself enfolds sugar coated, syrupy & candid makeover which is used as a weapon sometimes to settle scores & to put the things in accordance to one’s personal favour. We are often indulged in some awky situations where we’ve no other option than praising the other one. You must have noticed that wicky smile on the face of that fellow who is entrapped in this ‘web praise’. But most of us praise not willingly, but intentionally.  There’s a lot of difference between praising someone’s apparels & efforts. Some people are really worthy of this word & earn this with their efficacy. Like unsung heroes, they do work of praise not to be embodied as a ‘show-off saga’. And there are others who do things to get appreciated or to be praised highly. All of u

We’re living in times where our phone remains fully charged & necks bow down keeping our fingers busy with scrolling & switching to media contents. And wondrous thing is that most of our friends, relatives & acquaintances are just one phone call away & we refrain ourselves calling them. Instead we prefer to spend multiple of onscreen hours. Actually our never satisfying ‘ego’ propels us not to call the ones who never call us. And here’s where we lose close bonding too. It hardly takes five minutes of our busy schedule if we really want to call our closed ones. Even wishing them on their special occasions would make them feel special. Your one call could ignite their day. But our ‘Mr.Ego’ would hamper our way in saying that “Why should ‘I’ call when the ‘other’ doesn’t?” Basically, this tag line is the commonest of human behaviour. 70% of us believe in above said statement. But life shouldn’t be led this way. Why should we sacrifice our good instincts? May be that one ph

 Being happy is one’s own choice. You’ll find thousands of reasons to be happy. Your sufferings, agonies & troubles should be momentary but your happiness ought to be permanent. Learn to move on. Don’t stick to past acts or future worries. Find your happiness in trivial things. World around won’t serve it readymade. It’s ‘you’ who has to create it within you. Half of our health problems are product of our sufferings. As you can’t change what’s written in destiny, subsequently you can’t change others’ behaviour, mindset & approach to life. So why to trouble your own self, your own identity & your own precious life where you can infact live thousands of happier moments. Don’t let anyone hamper your personal growth that is draped in colours of happiness. Gather those precious smiles & spread the same to lives around. Don’t nail upon follies, but work upon improving & reliving your life the way you want to. We’ve really overlooked our priorities in this busy day to day

  ਭੂਆ ਦੇ ਮੁੰਡੇ ਦਾ ਵਿਆਹ ਤੇ ਮੈਨੂੰ ਗੋਡੇ ਗੋਡੇ ਚਾਅ! ਨੱਚਦੇ ਟੱਪਦੇ ਜਦੋਂ ਅਸੀਂ ਬਰਾਤ ਨਾਲ ਹਾਲ ਦੇ ਅੰਦਰ ਦਾਖ਼ਲ ਹੋਏ ਤੇ ਦੋ ਘੜੀਆਂ ਥਕਾਨ ਉਤਾਰਨ ਲਈ ਬੈਠ ਗਏ। ਮੁੰਡੇ ਵਾਲਿਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਆਇਆ ਵੇਖ ਸਾਰੇ ਵੇਟਰ ਕੋਈ ਨਾ ਕੋਈ ਡਿਸ਼ ਲੈਕੇ ਮੁਹਰੇ ਆ ਖਲੋਤੇ। ਮੈਂ ਵੀ ਆਪਣੀ ਭੂਆ ਨਾਲ ਬੈਠੀ 'ਜੈ ਮਾਲਾ' ਹੋਣ ਦੀ ਉਡੀਕ ਕਰਨ ਲੱਗੀ। ਉਸੇ ਵੇਲੇ ਇਕ ਵੇਟਰ ਜੂਸ ਲੈਕੇ ਮੇਰੇ ਸਾਹਮਣੇ ਆਇਆ। ਮੇਰਾ ਹੱਥ ਗਿਲਾਸ ਫੜਨ ਦੀ ਥਾਂ ਉਸ ਚਿਹਰੇ ਵਲ ਤੱਕਦਾ ਰਹਿ ਗਿਆ। ਦੋ ਪਲਾਂ ਲਈ ਮੈਂ ਆਪਣੇ ਅਧਿਆਪਨ ਕਿੱਤੇ ਚ ਵਾਪਸ ਪਰਤ ਗਈ......"ਅੱਜ ਫਿਰ ਮਹਿਕਦੀਪ ਨਹੀਂ ਆਇਆ! ਕਿੰਨੀਆਂ ਛੁੱਟੀਆਂ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ ਇਹ ਮੁੰਡਾ! ਮੈਂ ਇਸਦਾ ਨਾਂ ਕੱਟ ਦੇਣਾ ਹੁਣ। ਕਿੰਨਾ ਗੈਰ- ਜ਼ਿੰਮੇਵਾਰ ਮੁੰਡਾ ਹੈ!!"  ਮੇਰੀ ਭੂਆ ਨੇ ਮੈਂਨੂੰ ਹਿਲਾਉਂਦੇ ਹੋਏ ਕਿਹਾ," ਕਿੱਥੇ ਗੁਆਚ ਗਈ! ਮੁੰਡਾ ਜੂਸ ਪੁੱਛ ਰਿਹਾ।" ਮਹਿਕਦੀਪ ਤੇ ਮੈਂ ਇੱਕ ਦੂਜੇ ਵੱਲ ਕਿੰਨੀ ਦੇਰ ਅਣਪਛਾਤੇ ਬੰਦਿਆ ਵਾਂਗ ਨਜ਼ਰਾਂ ਛੁਪਾਉਂਦੇ ਰਹੇ। ਜਿਵੇਂ ਉਹ ਆਪਣੀ ਅਧਿਆਪਕ ਅੱਗੇ ਆਪਣੀ ਬੇਬਸੀ ਦੱਸ ਰਿਹਾ ਹੋਵੇ ਤੇ ਮੈਂ ਸ਼ਾਇਦ ਉਹਨੂੰ ਆਪਣੇ ਘਰ ਦੇ ਬੋਝ ਨੂੰ ਚੁੱਕ ਰਿਹਾ ਇੱਕ ਜਿੰਮੇਵਾਰ ਪਰ ਮਜਬੂਰ ਵਿਦਿਆਰਥੀ ਸਮਝ ਰਹੀ ਸਾਂ।  

  ‘Om’ is the essence of truth, rest all is mythical. It is your leading force, your true entity and your inner strength. The mere chanting of word ‘Om’ leads you to that unseen world where you & your emotions are the only survivors. Stand, rise & come out of your day to day busy bee lives. You’re not here to follow ‘Show-off’ race. Instead stick to the ultimate realia & go after the provocative meaning of word ‘Om’. It’s not only a word that you need to enchant. Think like it’s the entire force of universe that you are recalling to relax, refine, repel & relieve you.  Being ‘happy’ or being ‘Sad’, the entire world is upheld between these two adjectives. And once you drape yourself with the word ‘Om’ around you, you would definitely stop worrying about all ‘worldly pursuits’ (the whole world is running after madly). Don’t compromise your ‘divine power’ existing within you with the luxurious life you ask for. Your peace of mind that originates & ends with purgation o