Happiness in being ‘YOU’

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 Being happy is one’s own choice. You’ll find thousands of reasons to be happy. Your sufferings, agonies & troubles should be momentary but your happiness ought to be permanent. Learn to move on. Don’t stick to past acts or future worries. Find your happiness in trivial things. World around won’t serve it readymade. It’s ‘you’ who has to create it within you. Half of our health problems are product of our sufferings. As you can’t change what’s written in destiny, subsequently you can’t change others’ behaviour, mindset & approach to life. So why to trouble your own self, your own identity & your own precious life where you can infact live thousands of happier moments. Don’t let anyone hamper your personal growth that is draped in colours of happiness. Gather those precious smiles & spread the same to lives around. Don’t nail upon follies, but work upon improving & reliving your life the way you want to. We’ve really overlooked our priorities in this busy day to day life. And I just wonder that we’ve created such an entangled web around us that our own thoughts & actions are sidelined only because we’ve started giving preferences to “what others will say” tagline & thereby ignoring our very own bundle of joy, our own happy world that exists within YOU. 


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